Bardic Hospitality & Magickal Winter Weekend

topic posted Mon, November 12, 2007 - 12:40 AM by  Gypsy
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I went to the Magickal Winter Weekend site cause I was going to buy a membership while I had the money before the tickets went up and low and behold I read something that greatly angered me and made me decide I would never again have anything to do with MWW.

I was formerly MWW's music coordinator. Their new coordinator obliviously has no concept of Bardic Hospitality. A Bard is any Druid or Pagan for that matter who perform their priestly duties in the form of music, storytelling or sacred performance. Through out history within European Pagan culture Bards have been shown great respect and even a King would not dare think to violate the Law of Hospitality when dealing with Bards. They was given the seat of honor guest, given the finest ale/wine, the finest piece of the main meat dish (whether lamb or venison etc..), they were provided lodging etc.. Even later in early Christian times when a Bard was demoted to simple Minstrel they was still treated according to the Laws of Hospitality. If a Minstrel went to a Inn and played the Inn Keeper would feed them and give them lodging and if they didn't that Minstrel could destroy the Inn Keeper's business. The Law of Hospitality was very very important to our Celtic & Norse Ancestors and one was judge by such.

According to the MWW site they expect a musician or any other sacred performer to perform for free with nothing in return and if they want to stick around after they perform they have to pay. So in effect, perform for us for free then get the hell out. Not only does is violate Bardic Laws of Hospitality but is straight out rude. As a music promoter I have always treated the musicians who perform for me according to the Bardic Laws of Hospitality.

Recently my friend's band "Dharma Engine performed a awesome show at the Outlaws Bar & Grill on Burnside. Outlaws put away all their normal beer glasses and pulled out these tiny plastic cups (about 2 gulps worth) & charged folks $6 for a beer. Shady but fine cause they are in the business of making money. But its what they did to the band that was messed up. They actually charged the band for their beer. That is unheard of in the music industry. Every venue gives a band at least a 3 drink tab on the house. That tab tradition goes all the way back to the days when Inns & Taverns would feed & lodge Minstrels. I talked to Turtle afterwords and told him thats wrong dude. He was like I know, we will never play here again. Since then Outlaws has been Blacklisted by all the high caliber bands and can only get crappy punk & thrasher bands (Even the good ones among them won't play there).

To this day Musicians are able to enforce the Bardic Law of Hospitality upon bars & music venues. Theres another music venue that was shut down cause of it that I will write on at another time.

The point is thats musicians to this day still live by that law even outside the Pagan community so to see a Pagan event/group violate it is shocking. Thanks to New Agers, Tradition & Pagan Etiquette & Bardic Hospitality is slowly disappearing in the Pagan Community.

It seems that every single Pagan event up here in the Pacific Northwest is dominated by the vendors so its the whole New Ager's "Lets make money off of peoples spirituality". At some of these events the vendors actually out number the guest. There is way to much focus placed on the vendors and not enough on content. I realize these events need to make money in order to put on these events but folks ain't going to shell out $40 to $50 bucks and travel long distances to go to a glorified vending bazaar. They need quality programing and they can only get that by attracting good key speakers & performers. But they need to practice Pagan Etiquette & Bardic Hospitality if they want to attract those people who are the ones who will attract the people to pay good money to come to their events. Any good promoter knows the better you treat the performer the more you make off of their fans. Vendors can't make money if there is no customers. Speakers & Performers attract the customers so Pagan Events should place their focus on them not the vendors & they should be focusing their Hospitality on them not the vendors.

As a Druid, Pagan Etiquette & Bardic Laws of Hospitality is very very serious & several of my fellow Druids & a few of my Wiccan friends agree, that I have talked to about this already. This blatant violation actually has me pissed off enough to place energy in spreading the word to folks not to go to this or any other event who treats performers in such a manner.
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  • Lea
    Lea
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    Re: Bardic Hospitality & Magickal Winter Weekend

    Wed, November 14, 2007 - 8:12 AM
    I'm sorry you feel that way, Knower of the Oak. You know where we stand, you know what we face. The Bardic Competition was only open to members of the event last year as well, but you may not have been aware of that. It's too late to change it this year, but I'll keep your thoughts in mind for Magickal Winter Weekend IV.

    Bright Blessings,
    Lea
    Vice-Chair, MWW III
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      Wed, November 14, 2007 - 10:43 AM
      I'm referring to this from the site.

      'Vendor's Stage

      This year we have the opportunity to showcase more of our local talent by offering 50 minute performance spots on the stage located in the Vendor's area! Performances must be acoustic and due to space limitations we are requesting that groups have four or fewer members. Performers will be given a temporary pass to the Magickal Winter Weekend for their performance time only but may purchase a day pass ($25 each) if they wish to stay and enjoy all that we have to offer. A space will be available to offer cd's for sale during your performance and to pass out any flyers or gather information for future mailings."

      This has nothing to do with the Bardic Circle and Competition which is on a separate page. This has to do with the Vendor Stage Performers section. I would never had any musician perform for me without at least offering them a pass for the day. If you can't afford musicians or performers at least offer them your Hospitality. You don't lose a single dime offering them a day pass for free considering they just spent 50 minutes entertaining your guest who did pay to be there. Like Sienna said asking them for $25 for the right to hang around after they perform is just plain being greedy.

      Did we charge our key speakers last year to be there? I think if we had neither John Michael Greer or Mike Nichols would had shown up if I be thinking. You treat your performers the same way you treat your key speakers. They are the ones bringing in the money for you. You can at least show them your gratitude by showing them hospitality. The Bardic Competition is there for the paying guest to compete against each other. That is a totally different thing. Now if your performers want to compete as well I can see charging them a competition entry fee but not charging them to enjoy the event they just performed for you for free.
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        Wed, November 14, 2007 - 10:57 AM
        Also we didn't pay either the Tea Caddies or Reverend Feathers to perform last year. We gave them each a day pass. Feathers didn't end up using his and both Matt & Kina spent money in the vending area when they each used their day pass. Most everyone I talked to, especially Mike Nichols enjoyed the music. The only bitching came from the drummers, even though the starting and ending times was well posted.
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          Wed, November 14, 2007 - 11:04 AM
          And not only did they all three perform for us for free at the event they also all performed for us earlier on for free at a fund raising event that we made money off of. They more than deserved the hospitality of a free day pass. So why would that be any different this year?
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            Wed, November 14, 2007 - 10:11 PM
            They did do a lot of work for us last year, and they did deserve the day passes.The Tea Caddies and Reverend Feathers were featured performers, just as Mike Nichols and John Michael Grier were featured panelists. All of them got either day or weekend passes.

            Of the rest of the panelists, the teachers, it depended, and depends, on how much time each person spent. One class earns our thanks. Two classes earns our thanks and either a discount on the weekend or a free day pass. Three classes earns a full weekend pass. Each class is an hour to an hour and a half long. For three classes, that's a lot of work, and we do gift them with a pass with a whole heart.

            We can't give free passes to all the musicians and teachers at this point in our growth. I hope we can some day. Right now, we're just getting off the ground. Our intent was to be even-handed in the way we dealt with both the musicians and the panelists. It was not intended to offend Hospitality.
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    Wed, November 14, 2007 - 11:52 AM
    My first post on this tribe, into the fire.

    I have never attended this event, and now I can't say I ever plan to. Loss of revenue for them.

    In comparison: I attend and perform at several Bellydance festivals every year. Some, like Tribal fest, have upto 40 performers/troupes a showcase, and we all get in free the day of our performance. If you dance Saturday, admission is free, if you attend Sunday you pay to get in. If you are a worksop instructor (ie repected teacher) you attend the entire event for free.

    Just thought we could accknowlege "scared hospitality" being practiced outside the pagan community, sad it's not happening within accross the board. I'm a coordinator for Sacramento's Midsummer Celtic Faery Festival as well. It's a free admission event so performers perform for free. Unforunately they must purchase alcoholic drinks inside the VFW bar, it can't be helped per our contract with VFW. However, we will provide H2O bottles and food to our performers, as well as free merch space to sell CD's. And they can solicit the crowd of donations. Anything else besides our excellent PA and raised stage I should pass on to the entertainment coordinator to consider?
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    Wed, November 14, 2007 - 2:06 PM
    Congratulations "Knower"... your anger is succeeding in shutting down something that could be good...

    I agree in theory regarding the $$... but to make it a public snit is not right... remember you get what you give...
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      Wed, November 14, 2007 - 2:25 PM
      I agree that all things done and said in public forum are subject to public scrutiny. From what event organizers post on their website to our thread beginers dissatifaction with said event, all the way up to Aunt Pita's unhappiness at his choice on how to protest said event.

      However why not turn this into a public discussion? Tribe is about opportunity to use a public forum for our discussions. We can make this a study of Hospitallity, what is expected of event coordiators, why events make no money. Why don't professional promoters want to work on them? What practices do work in the Pagan community events? What should be expected of performers and organizers?
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        Thu, November 15, 2007 - 12:10 AM
        Okay, okay...everyone calm down, please.
        I am a Bard and like most Druids, I like peace...and I like logic.
        Soooooooo, please go to the event, and please buy a few CDs from the Bards there.
        Also, if you are one of those rich Pagans, buy an extra pass or two or five and give them to the Bards.
        Beginning events, and events without a long history cannot support everyone...that is factual.

        Send money to the event directly to their site and state on the paypal that it is money FOR the BARDS...( **Be implicit!** )

        Also, please use logic. If you want the Bards to eat, go to the event and buy them food... If you want them to have spending money at the event, throw money on their harp case... Also, go to the event and enjoy the Bards, and hire one to play at your next event, and offer to get the word out about how wonderful they are... If you can make websites, make them one... If you are good at handing out their cards, do it at the event, or after the event...help them network.

        If you want the Bards to be supported, support them yourself. Charity begins within.

        La la laa laaa Laaaaaaa! Laaaaaaaaaa Laaaaa... Laaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
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          Thu, November 15, 2007 - 1:04 AM
          Mabyn I have no problem with them getting musicians to play for them for free. They can't afford musicians, I know. But I do have a problem with them charging their key musicians to stay around after they just offered to perform for their folks for free. It cost them nothing, not a single dime, hurts them in no fashion whatsoever to give those performers a day pass for free. I'm not expecting them to put the musicians up in lodging or feed them or even give them a Full Weekend Pass etc... I'm asking them to show them some gratitude with a lousy stinking day pass. Its not to much to ask. Let them at least see & enjoy what they just volunteered their time and music too.



          BTW the day passes are normally $25 anyway so its not like they are even giving them a break on the price of the day pass.

          Sienna in another tribe thinks its just greed. Her group, MAGIC puts on Spiral Rhythms and saids they won't be doing it this year cause they can't properly show their performers the gratitude they deserve. Because of this treatment towards their performers they have a good reputation. Spiral Rhythms hasn't been around that long. They are still struggling but refuse to stoop to the level of charging their performers to be there. Personally I'll support Spiral Rhythms anyway I can cause they understand Ghosti. Look the word up folks. Its a word which is sorely lacking in the present Pagan community.
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    Thu, November 15, 2007 - 8:12 AM
    > It seems that every single Pagan event up here in the Pacific Northwest is dominated by the vendors

    The time spent on developing programming in MWW (I'm on the convention committee) far outweighs the time in working on vendors.

    > so its the whole New Ager's "Lets make money off of peoples spirituality".

    Not being a New Ager, II don't think that way myself.

    In fact, every member of the convention committee buys a membership in order to try to make the convention work. It's called Committment.

    > At some of these events the vendors actually out number the guest.

    This isn't 'some of these' events. Neither of the past two MWW events were vendor-heavy, and the ratio, based on personal observation, is more like 20 to 1.

    > There is way to much focus placed on the vendors and not enough on content.

    How is that, specifically? The time spent on developing programming in MWW (I'm on the convention committee) far outweighs the time in working on vendors. In fact, if you will go to the website magickalwinterweekend.org/ you will see the number of vendors is capped.

    > I realize these events need to make money in order to put on these events

    Yes, it does. You have to pay your bills, else your word becomes trash. If there ever is a surplus (and, OBTW, non-profit organizations, for that's what MWW is, a registered Oregon not-for-profit) it isn't a profit; non profits never make a profit. Any surplus over and above paying bills goes to repay debt or is the seed corn for next year (you don't eat your seed corn if you want to have a crop next year).

    > but folks ain't going to shell out $40 to $50 bucks and travel long distances to go to a glorified vending bazaar.

    Which is why MWW spends so much time developing programming.

    magickalwinterweekend.org

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      Thu, November 15, 2007 - 8:58 AM
      Here is your word -- it means sacrifice:
      www.adf.org/articles/cos...e-ie-adf.html

      Please go to the event everyone, and support the Bards by giving them what you can. Buy them food, take care of them, buy them day passes, pass out their cards for them, buy their CDs, throw money and gold coins on their harp cases.

      Whenever you are at a Pagan event, go out of your way to be generous to the Clergy and the Bards -- that means EVERYONE, not just the organizers. (It takes a village to support Clergy and Bards -- Charity and Support begins with you.)

      So, when you are going to a Pagan event -- whether you are a new Pagan or an old hat -- bring lots of extra $$ and/or presents so you can gift to the Givers...and so you can share a meal with those who give so much... It will mean a lot to the Clergy and the Bards!!!
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        Thu, November 15, 2007 - 10:26 PM
        I didn't know that this was posted here as well as PDX Pagans tribe. So I will copy my responce to this tribe:

        Wow! Quite the negative and pissed off rant with out even speaking to the MWW committee directly about what is bothering you before airing it out in public. It is so nice when a group spends a whole year to put on an event for the community, to then have to be slammed for all their hard work.

        I can understand your point. Though there are always two sides to a coin. Here are some of the facts.

        1) We are a not for profit event. (Referencing the accusation of greedy) As yet we have not made a profit in the first two years. When a profit above what is needed to fund the next years event is made it has already been decide to share the profit out to local non-profit pagan groups. We are not about making money on the event. However, it does take money to run such an event.

        2) All committee members still pay to attend the event ourselves, we don't even get in for free, yet we give countless hours of our time and energy because we believe what we are doing is a service to our community.

        3) There is a system set up for presenters and performers based on the number of presentations that are given, reducing their entrance fee and given enough (3) they can get in for free.

        4) The supposed emphasis on Vendors is because they do pay for the space they use and that is how many events are able to fund the event. As well as, unlike a 50 minute performance most vendors will spend the entire day at their booth and not be able to attend the panels that their space rent has helped to facilitate.

        5) In the summer of 06 MWW ran fund raising concerts, (A sincere Thank you again Gypsy for your efforts in that corner.) All the performers received a free pass to MWW 07. Those performers were very generous with their time and energy and we reciprocated in kind with a free pass. They did perform for well over 2 hours and received refreshment.

        The example above about the club owner is not an apples' to apples' example. The club owner was making a profit off of the musician's performance by selling beer and even that was a rip off to the public. I agree that was just not ok and rude. (MWW had absolutely nothing to do with that example)

        The difference here is that we are not making any money off the performers. We are offering space for the performers to showcase their talent and sell their wares for FREE. In other words they do not have to rent the space to sell their wares like the vendors. I think that is a fair exchange of energy. We are asking as a community service, to both those attending the event, and as a means for the performers to advertise to a very receptive community.

        Also unlike Spiral Rhythms we are not a music festival. Our attendees are not there for the purpose of attending a concert. Our emphasis is on sharing information across the paths so that we can grow in our understanding of the various pagan paths; help create a sense of community, and offer an indoor winter time event. The feed back from the last two years of attendees is that they are more interested in learning during the day and drumming/dancing at night. They also asked for more ritual which will be happening this year.

        I'm relatively sure that when we reach an attendance level that the event is making a profit we will gladly offer free passes to our presenters and performers. We are still new and do not have the means as of yet to be as generous with the free passes as we might like to be. We are not asking more of the music performers than we are of any other presenters.

        I would like to say that I admire my fellow committee members for giving their time and energy as a service to our community. We are not paid in any way, we pay to attend, and many of us fund various parts of the event out of our pockets. I'm rather upset at being called greedy as it is just not true and rather mean.

        I will also send out thanks to all the other non-profit event coordinators for offering up festivals and events that we can all attend as we desire and building our sense of community. I so love it when I get to see people at festival that I otherwise would not be able to see on a yearly basis.

        So a big

        THANK YOU:

        OWOW for Sun Fest,

        M.A.G.I.C. for Spiral Rhythms and other events throughout the year,

        Sister Sprit for Pagan Faire,

        Nine Houses for Fall Equinox and Publishing Open Ways,

        Pagan Pride coordinators past and present,

        And any other of my fellow pagans for volunteering your time and energy to our community.



        Live in Love and Joy

        With love light and gratitude

        KaTerra

        MWW Committee

        P.S. I really like the idea of setting out the cauldron of plenty so that our attendees can directly show their appreciation to the performers.

        • Re: Bardic Hospitality & Magickal Winter Weekend

          Fri, November 16, 2007 - 6:39 AM
          Since this thread seems to have bled from the PDX pagans tribe to the general pagan community outside of Portland, I'll ad another 2 cents here as an even organizer:

          Spiral Rhythms has a handful of musicians and workshop hosts that show up and only get free entry and food. But each one of them costs the organization $17.50 in site fees, insurance, and food. Last year we had over 20 people on that list, so that adds up to over $350. At our ticket price, that's about what 5 paid attendees would bring in. My guess is that MWW also has a "per head" cost. So you can see, there is no such thing as a free lunch.

          Logically, we must figure this into the entire cost of putting on the event. If we cannot afford to pay that cost, we can't expect these people to show up for free. Music is Magick, and like any magick, you get back from it what you put into it.

          On the other hand....
          There's a difference between professional musicians and the people who pick up their guitars when they get home from their real jobs. Pros are more entertaining, have put more practice into their crafts, and invested in it as a career. Amateurs, no matter how talented, don't sink the same amount of energy into their art--it's always a hobby for them. Now, while some people have fun showing off their hobbies, Spiral Rhythms hires pros, and we pay them a decent wage. (Would you show up for work if you thought you would "maybe" get paid in tips? You'd have to be damned desperate if you said yes.)

          We know that our audience will walk away feeling the energy of every performer we book, because the musicans put that much energy into it. We are--after all--a pagan music festival. MWW has already said that they are NOT.

          The point here is not who can afford to do what, but how we express "Respect." We respect our ticket holders by not subjecting them to amateurs cutting their teeth on their hobbies. We respect every single person who contributes to the event, even the volunteers (who ALSO get free entry & meals.) And we respect our presenters and musicians by giving them something in return for their energy. MWW has it's own way of showing respect to the people who run it, I'm sure...or they wouldn't do it.

          Pagans may not recognize the fact that we are participating in a revolution of thought by being pagans. Revolutions are only successful if crafted with respect for others. Pagans get no respect in the outer world. Why do we need to disrespect each other at our own events? Or on our internet communities?

          If "Knower of the Oak" has issues with MWW, my suggestion is that he take them up with KaTerra or someone like her off line. Showing this amount of public disrespect has it's own negative Karma.
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            Fri, November 16, 2007 - 9:44 AM
            Thank you so much Sienna for expressing what I could not find the words for and explaining the difference between the wonderful music you give at Spiral Rhythms and the very small offerings that we will be having at Magickal Winter Weekend. I won't know until the next committee meeting on December 2nd, but you may have just saved my idea from being scrapped altogether -- thank you!
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    Fri, November 16, 2007 - 8:03 AM
    > There is way to much focus placed on the vendors and not enough on content.

    At last year's MWW, there were eight (8) programming tracks, with a total of 65 programming events, using hotel rooms for which the committee paid dearly.

    How this could be perceived as 'not enough focus on content' staggers me.




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      Fri, November 16, 2007 - 9:51 AM
      Aunt, K7, and other Magickal Organizers;

      When you organize an event, it is very very very stressful, and stress can cause you to be emotional and not as grounded as usual.. Take some time out for yourself...and
      1) go outside;
      2) dig your feet into the earth, and bury your hands in the earth;
      3) drink some chamomile and eat some grounding foods such as nuts and proteins;
      4) burn some sage...
      As all event organizers know, the time leading up to an event gets doubly stressful each day leading up to the event.... I wish you a very successful peaceful event, and hope that you make such an incredible mound of money that you are able to give stipends to the performers next year... (Don't forget to put a big sign up next to the musician cauldron with tip suggestions...)
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    Sun, November 18, 2007 - 12:24 AM
    I was going to apologize for going off but after reading that the MWW committee considers those of the Bardic tradition as to be too much of a bother I don't know. I noticed the offending words of charging the performers $25 to stick around after their performance was quickly removed from MWW's website though. If you believe you was justified asking the performers to pay for a pass why did you remove it? My bitterness on this goes back to last years event when while running around playing proper host watching Matt's kid why he tried to enjoy the event a meeting was held with some of the guest. Supposedly they was complaining about the music and some of the committee decided that the musician were to much of a bother and shouldn't have it the next year. I was approach by a committee member after words and told this. I was mad. I went around and asked folks what they thought of the music and they all said they enjoyed it. I was puzzled. Then one of the committee members (name left unsaid) who actually enjoyed the Tea Caddies came to me and said "Gypsy it was mainly the drummers who complained. Most everyone else enjoyed it." I was like really. During the show at one point I was sitting next to Mike Nichols, one of are two great guest speakers we had. At one point he had leaned over to me and said "It makes me feel good to see the young folks showing a interest in the old folk music." Mike was truly enjoying the music. I told him Matt would be back the next day and maybe I can get him to bring his guitar and you two could play together. He was like he would love that. Unfortunately Matt had his son in tow and forgot his guitar. Later the next day Mike stopped me and thank me for the great show. I said thank you but unfortunately some didn't feel the same way and they are talking about cutting out the music. That they rather have a drum circle. He said, "Thats ashame. Not all us Pagans care to hear only a drum beat."

    What ticks me off is as soon as folks had started complaining about the music program during the meeting someone should had said well as the music coordinator Gypsy really should be here to hear this and be allowed the opportunity to address these complaints. Someone should go find him." But they didn't. They took the complaints, made a somewhat semi decision not to have music in the future without even consulting me. That was very very poor etiquette.

    When Kina heard of the complaints she was very very hurt. Matt told me later they had actually turned down a paying gig to be there. He said Kina really really wanted to be part of the event. Kina is Wiccan, Matt follows the Bardic tradition. Both are your traditional musicians, storytellers & satirist and love to play Old Time, Folk & Bluegrass. This is a rich music whose roots can be traced back to the old Pagan Folk Music of the British Isle thanks to a lot of the Scots-Irish of the Appalachians Mountains for bringing it over & preserving it.

    I'll admit I snapped and should had confronted Drumwench privately and allowed her a chance to address the complaint before dragging it into a public forum and for that I apologized. That was poor etiquette on my part. I was not aware that she was having the same problems I did with this very stubborn committee.

    I realized afterwards how harsh & undiplomatic I came across and begin calling my musician friends on the phone who all identify themselves as Bards to ask them their opinion and how could I get my point across in a lest harsh and hostile manner. One of my friends spends nearly 9 months out of the year traveling the country living out of her van performing at coffee shops, bars & taverns, music festivals & Pagan events. She struggles to make ends meet cause she is a full time musician. She was once asked to perform at a Pagan Pride event back in New York. She lives in the Puget Sounds (Did I spell that right?) in Washington. Pagan Pride is a free event so they didn't have the funds to pay her or fly her there. She literally took her guitar into Seattle, opened it up on the streets and played to raise the gas & food money to get to New York. When she got there the Pagan Pride organizer offered the hospitality of their couch to sleep on. It wasn't much, but it showed she was appreciated. She spent more money getting there than she made selling CDs at the actual event. After words the PP coordinator passed a hat among their volunteers and raised enough money to fill her tank 3 times and sent her off with some home made food. She still had to stop along the way to play on street corners for gas to get back to Washington. Would she play for them again? She saids yes cause they showed her proper hospitality even though it cost her money to get there and back. After viewing the MWW site herself she agreed she would not play for MWW. But she said; Realize that that is the opinion of a musician, and that you might want to get the opinion of one at the business end to better get your point across. I thought but I am at the business end of the music scene and they aren't listening. I thought to myself, who do I know that is a successful promoter whom they would be familiar with and whose opinion they may respect. I instantly thought of my friend & fellow Druidess Kelly. For those who don't know who she is, Kelly is one of the three co-producers and founders of the very very successful Faerieworld Festival held in Oregon and Faeriecon International held back east. She is also one of the co-founders of the band Woodlands. They by the way are awesome. Give them a listen. She is also a practicing Druidess & Bard and a mother.

    Though I may not always agree with some of her overly zealous fans I have the up most respect for this young lass's wisdom & knowledge so I went to her with my frustration and requested her wise counsel. She went and viewed the original thread here and the site of the offending words that got me so riled up to begin with which have since been removed. She was going to respond here but Drumwench had already gone to one of her tribes and complained about my complaint so she responded there instead. She contacted me back and told me she agreed with me and totally understood why I was upset. Told me she had responded and gave me permission to repost her's and her husband's post here. Below is that post.

    (Kelly's Post)
    well, as an organizer and producer of many many events, i can relate somewhat to all sides here. i am also a musician and i don't perform for free at events that charge an admission and use my band's name to sell tickets, period. proper energy exchange is crucial for healthy community. poverty consciousness will get you no where when trying to manifest abundance. if you want performers to provide entertainment to your audience whom you sold tickets to, you must offer them something in exchange that is honoring the gift they bring. the frame of mind that says offering them a place to share their music is enough, is exploitive and a disrespect. free passes to the event would be the minimal offering accepted i would say. offer whatever you can afford to offer, and then a bit more. that is the bardic law of hospitality in a nutshell. and such energetic generosity should be considered an investment in eventual success.

    ~

    i was made aware of this issue when asked my opinion on proper performer/producer etiquette from a very sad and frustrated veteran of the music and pagan festie scene.....

    ~

    "Now there is a gentleman on a huge tribe that has probably hung me in effigy in his backyard and is posting that our event is money-hungry, greedy and should be avoided at all costs!"

    " i have been justly, and publicly, condemned to Dante's seventh level of hell. What would you do??"

    first, i would re-read his "rant" so that you would see that the statements you claim he is making about you and your event, are not necessarily there. i would not take this personally, but rather examine the issue from a business perspective and ask yourself if the practice in question is truly ethical, and if it isn't, change it.

    ~

    *Kelly's final post on the subject.*

    i do understand all points you just made here.....it sounded to me like knower of the oak had felt he had exhausted his efforts to be heard, that he was tired of arguing over something that seemed so obvious to him, and he was looking to see if the greater community outside of the smaller argument, would hear what he was saying...
    either way, it sucks to have this stuff aired out publicly, i completely understand. i have been through the ringer with internet public attack, it's hell.
    at least he did not use any names or attack anyone personally, that is a level of disrespect i would not wish on anyone, having endured insane amounts of slander myself.
    that said, we pay that amount for the smallest of acts, year after year. we pay for friends to be at the party, year after year. and year after year, we have lost grande amounts of money. one year after eating it in the area of many thousands of dollars, we then donated 5000 dollars to julia butterfly hill's circle of life foundation.
    so all of the loss, eventually, turned into an investment in something that has just recently become semi-sustainable.
    but every successful business venture endures years of investment. there has to be some way to fund this initial investment if an event is ever going to get off the ground. that is why lio suggested sponsorships, and even seeking a benefactor.
    anyway, many many blessings on your endeavors....
    and may you all find peace and much love and magic in your community...
    ~kelly

    ~

    (Lio's Post)

    My two pence...

    I have been performing at and producing events for many years, and although I don't want to get anyone fired up or upset, I have to agree that asking performers to pay after they have shared their art and spirit is very unusual. I could see how someone who represents musicians would be very offended. I've actually never heard of an event charging performers admission at any event, and as a band leader of a successful group, I would NEVER play an event with such an aesthetic. I'm not being rude to say so, I just feel that musicians should be honored for the gift they bring.

    I have been putting on festivals and events for over ten years, and have paid almost every musician that has ever stepped on to our main stage. Most of them were paid quite well, even when our events were humble and starting out. Even the smaller acts on second stages get free passes for them and their families, and access to food, hospitality, etc.

    I think the idea that you're giving musicians an "opportunity" to perform is pretty unusual. It doesn't sound right to me, and I don't know any self-respecting artist who would feel good with that. I go to events SPECIFICALLY for the music and performances, as do many, and as a producer I feel honored by the amazing talent that joins us every year. They deserve our utmost respect, and every bit of hospitality we can afford. The energy exchange and trust of positive financial flow is greatly impeded by anything less.

    If I were the producer of this event, I would work on a strong business plan, sponsorships, and various other ways to raise money that doesn't include charging those who bring magic to your events, or making them leave. I also can't imagine charging staff members admission. This to me sounds like poor fiscal planning, and a flawed budgetary design. Producers need to balance costs and income and find ways to make them meet so that no one is being taken advantage of in this way.

    I wouldn't demonize this man for his stance. If anything I would amend the situation and make it right, and humbly ask him to continue supporting your event and stop whatever negativity is being perpetuated by his very understandable feelings. I have been challenged before about our ethics, and have found that hearing what the person has to say and adjusting is much better for your event than trying to publicly battle someone and prove them wrong.

    I don't know any of the parties involved at all, this is completely neutral and unbiased. Best of luck to you all, and to a magical event empowered by trust and mutual respect.

    Lio

    ~

    I do feel that I had exhausted my efforts with this group to be heard so after all my work and I saw that on their site I snapped and felt a need to bring it to a public forum. I admit that may have not been the wises chose and I apologize for that. But MWW was already very very well aware of my feelings on this long before this present issue came up. They chose to ignore my past advise and was going to try to charge the performers anyway. Like Kelly saids if you expect to ever have any success with this event you need to be willing to take some risk in investments. As the organizers of this event you are in effect the Promoters. Besides planning and organizing an event, you are expected as Promoters to dig into your own pockets, not your performers, entertainers, or key speakers pockets. If your own pockets aren't deep enough go seek out sponsors with deeper pockets. I have in the past suggested we work harder on finding sponsors. I had suggested PanGaia, NewWitch & Circle magazine for not only advertising but as possible sponsors as well. I was told maybe later when we are bigger. No not later. You ain't going to get bigger without the sponsors.

    By the way if you state anywhere in your advertising that your event will have performers of any kind you are using them as a point to sell tickets therefore you are making money off of them.

    I onces attempted to put on my first big show in my home town. I financed the whole thing out of my own pockets. I did not have a single helper in the financial area. Being my first big show beyond the local bars & club scene I was treading new waters. When you use a bar or club as your venue many of the licensing, security and other little details are covered by the venue. I rented a large Hall, booked 6 bands. Three which came from a 100 miles away to play for me. I bought several kegs of beer that was going to be sold during the show. I hired a caterer to take care of the bands back stage and many other little things. I bought black security shirts and 5 expensive little walkie talkies with mics that go on your shoulders. 3 for my 3 volunteer bouncers, one for me & my stage manager. I rented the sound system & sound guy. There were several other investments as well. Being my first big show I had a small crew of volunteers who did a lot of the running for me during the planning stages. The Hall I rented required me for insurance purposes to have at least one license security guard on site. One of my volunteers (Who I later learned was running around telling everyone he was my co-promoter) was suppose to be in charge of setting that up. Apparently I was required to have a special event insurance before the security company would supply me with a security guard. There was a deadline to get all this done. The day of the show, with the stage set, the bands ready and close to 500 people outside waiting to pay to come in, there was no security guard & my volunteer who was in charge was no where to be found. Turn out he had not met the dead line to get the insurance in order to secure the security guard. The Venue manager gave me 1 hour to produced a license security guard or I have to tear down and get out even though I had my own personal security team. Me and my main security guy worked frantically on the phone trying to get the insurance to get the guard but it was to late. We had to pack up and get out. I lost close to $8,000 of my own money on that show. I in good faith still paid all my bands. Paid the caterers etc.. Not to mention all the advertising and other stuff. One of the fans really wanted to hear the bands and was a rich kid. He called his dad and ask if he could throw a party on their ranch for the bands. He agreed. 2 of the bands were tired from all the drama and drove back to LA. The rest were like why not. I reward the folks who been waiting for hours outside by telling them that the show was moving up to a ranch up on San Marcus Pass and that it would be free. We tore down and moved to the ranch which turned into a hell of a party and I and everyone else got drunk on all the beer I bought. Several times during the evening I had moments during my drunkenness I would begin to cry about all the money I lost & how I had let all the bands and the fans down. People were like cheer up Gypsy, It worked itself out great in the end. And all the bands told me they would play for me anytime. Other than the lost of a lot of money that really really hurt me it did turn out fine & I had gain some very very valuable lessons. That was quite a few years ago & I haven't attempted that stunt again, mainly because I haven't had that kind of money since to do it again. But I have over the years since worked many many Festivals, Shows & Renn Faires and have drilled many of its Promoters & Organizers for advice in the hope of not only trying to pull it off again but to do so on my own plot of land. You see since then I have had a vision of creating a big Pagan style Woodstock that I will call "The Song from the Woods Music Festival". Its been years and years in the planning. I just finally found a buyer for my 10 acres I own in California and that is now in the process of going through. After paying off my new truck the remainder I am looking into investing in a way that I will soon be able to buy or at least put the money down on a larger piece of land up here in Oregon in the hopes of someday making my vision a reality. Not only will I put on my own Festival I will open my land to other Pagan Events organizers for theirs as well. I know how hard it is for Pagans to find venues that are open to us. Since I have moved to Portland I have been struggling to break into the local music scene as a promoter. As a new comer I have had a hard time finding venues but have been very successful in making friends among its musicians. I'm proud to say that close to 90% of the 100+ numbers I have in my iPhone are those of musicians and recently had a close friend who was a promoter here in Portland (has moved to Bend) gave me access to all his venue connection. Basically He told me to use his name when trying to secure a venue for a show and gave me a list of them. He was formerly a promoter for one of Portland's most successful bands that has since moved to Boulder in order to be closer to the string of bands that they play with a lot. He still tours with them as their PR/personal promoter when he is not in Bend.

    My point in all of this is I'm quite aware of the time, hard work and money it takes to make these things happen. A lot of these big events folks attend may seem on the outside to be quite successful and they are, but that doesn't mean the promoter or the organizer was successful. The reason why the Event is successful is because the Promoter is willing to bite the bullet on the investment in order to maintain their reputation. When their investment fails to return to them they maintain the rep by holding to the code of Hospitality. If they hope to recover their investment at the next event they need to maintain that reputation so folks will trust them enough to return and perform or work for them again. Making up for the lack of monetary rewards with unselfish Hospitality does that.

    As I have said before, in Ancient times even a King would not violate the Bardic Laws of Hospitality (yes even the corrupt kings practices it). If they didn't they would not remain King for long. A Bard would write a satire about that King that they was selfish and their words held a lot of weight believe me. After all a Bard is a Priest and the Celtic people held its Druids/Bards in higher esteem than they did their Kings. The people would not care to be ruled by a openly immoral King (notice I said openly). Anyone who follows a Celtic tradition knows that Hospitality is one of the most important virtues in Celtic spirituality, so much so that it has survived as a very important virtue within Celtic Christianity as you will find if you were to google Celtic Hospitality.

    One of the things that bugs the hell out of me is Aliester Crowley's phrase "Do What Thou Wilt, Be It Harm None" which has been tossed around by the Wiccan community as a rebuttal to anyones complaint to them. I'm sick of them telling me statements like "How does that honor the Rede to Harm None??" My answer to that is that I don't cause I'm not Wiccan, I'm Druidic. We have a much different way of looking at morality than they do. We follow for the most part the nine Celic or Druidic Virtues which Hospitality happens to be one of them. Below is the words of a fellow Druid within my Order, Anthony Thompson.

    "It may be seen that many neo-pagan, wiccan and witchs, as both groups and individuals follow a simple formula with regard to ethics and morality, summarized as ‘the rede’ and which states; “If it harm none, do as thee will.” However, increasingly it is becoming clear amongst Pagan reconstructionists and revivalists that ancient moral, ethical and codes of law are far more complex, intricate and demanding than this self justifying and liberal statement. There is currently a surge of professionally orientated and academic pagan intelligentsia who are attempting through sound historical research to establish pagan morality and virtue and a working ethical framework to accompany their life, spirituality, relationships, and employment. Small Druid groups such as ‘Ord Draiochta Na Uisnech’ have completely integrated the study and adoption of traditional Celtic morality into their education program. It is recognized that for an individual to be completely whole they must possess an ethical framework, to explore and practice ideals such as honor, honesty, truth and integrity, piety, justice, hospitality, loyalty, and courage."

    He saids this on the virtue of Hospitality.

    "Hospitality.

    Hospitality is perhaps the most significant and important Celtic virtue, the one which actively promotes and sustains a working sense of community. The requirements of hospitality demand that the host be gracious and generous and the guest be appreciative and thankful, for all that we possess are merely gifts in themselves and we are merely conduits of grace and benevolence. It is a common Celtic belief that to give is also to receive, the two go in unison as typified by this Irish proverb:

    Ag te a thabharfas sceal chugat tabhar faidh se dha sceal uait (Whoever will bring a story for you, will take two stories from you.)

    This indicates that true hospitality is a reciprocal virtue, not one sided or unbalanced. Generosity in this context can take many forms; with words of appreciation, with a contribution of ourselves as labor toward a neighbors household task, as a gift for a significant life commemoration, to provide comfort, warmth and/or food. Often the Celtic notion of hospitality went beyond normal perceptions of reason and law, as in this proverb: Bheirrin cuid oidhche dha ged a bhiodh ceann fir fo achlais (I would give him food and lodging for the night, even if he had a man’s head under his arm.)

    In this context I believe that we should behave with courteous manners, and to be the best we can be; a veritable model of a human and present the ideal characteristics that we desire in others. We can never know the true sequence of events in a person’s misfortune and current state, and therefore never judge or condemn. Even if we can never offer anything material, a kind word or a smile may be enough to bolster the confidence of a person who is down. "

    In all fairness I myself violated many of those virtue by snapping the way I did and for that I apologize, but that does not change the fact that I hold you accountable for your actions.

    On the subject of me accusing MWW of having more vendors than content (workshops/programing)? If you go back and reread my comment I never accused MWW itself. I was making a blanket statement about Pagan Events in general. But truth be told if a Event's organizer/organizers are going to make claims that their event represents the Pagan community then they should represent the whole Pagan community. Just inviting them to attend the Event is not representing them. Last year other than the three workshops/programs on Druidry all the other workshops/programing was geared towards and tailored to the Wiccans and the one step removed Eclectic Pagans who have adopted the Wiccans practice of borrowing from other traditions one step further and dropped the Wiccan label. But its still mainly Wicca. Nothing against Wicca. Its a valid and rich traditions, but they do tend to dominate Pagan events which does not make for an inviting environment to those of other Pagan Traditions. Wiccans dominate so much that long ago the Norse/Asatru took to the practice of not wanting to be called Pagans and prefer Heathen because they don't want to be mistaken as Wiccans. Its come to the point that the words Pagan & Wicca have started being used almost interchangeably. Last year I saw no Norse/Asatru workshops/programming which was surprising considering we had 2 committee members who practice the Norse Traditions. I saw no workshops addressing the Hellenist, the Discordians or Erisians, the Egyptians-Isians-Kemetics, the Hermetics, the Vodouns-Santerians, the Bantu Faiths, the Yorubaians, the Thelemist, the Slavianist, Romuva, Taoist, Shintoism, the Vedic and Hindu traditions (yes they are Pagans) and a hundred other Pagan traditions. Oh and lets not forget the Red Path of the Native Americans themselves. Also I know some Pagan groups were purposely ignored cause some members of the committee decided they were to dark for their likings and felt they did not represent what MWW was about. Really? I thought MWW was about representing all Pagans, including those you aren't comfortable with. If you want to truly represent the whole Pagan community that means stepping outside of your comfort zone and not be shoving the Wiccan Rede down other Traditions throats. The Wiccan Rede is not the MWW Rede unless you want to go back to the name Wiccon.

    Also you can't expect them to come to you to ask to do workshops as most of them don't trust Pagan Event organizers since most of them are Wiccans. Also trying to recruit workshop presenters from boards like this will for the most part fail as most of your return responses will most likely come from Wiccans. What you need is someone who is willing to step out of their comfort zone and act as the committee's Pagan Inter-Faith Liaison and actually go out and seek these other traditions. Research them, get to know their tradition a little and what is proper etiquette when dealing with them so you don't accidentally disrespect or insult them. So until you are willing to actually take the time to get to know them and respect them, the vision for a Pagan community will never manifest. You can't focus on their common roots with you and ignore their differences without insulting them. Also not contrary to popular belief do all Pagans have a common root beyond the fact that they call themselves Pagans.

    Also some of my harsh complaints are coming from people who message me or talk to me about these things and for one reason or another they are to scared to voice them to the community as a whole. They are probably scared that they will get the Wiccan Rede shoved down their throats. Remember that when someone voices a complaint and you tell them that they aren't following the spirit of the Wiccan Rede that you are making the assumption that they are Wiccans just because they claim to be Pagan. That is both naive and insulting. I do wish they would get some back bone and express to the community what they express to me and not allow me to stick my neck out alone. It makes it look like I'm a lone disgruntled Pagan.

    I'll leave it at that till another time when I am cooled off to better respond without biting words.
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      Re: Bardic Hospitality & Magickal Winter Weekend

      Sun, November 18, 2007 - 10:52 AM
      Gypsy, friend...

      1) You have a broken wrist and have not slept well in a week.
      2) You have talked to other Bards -- such as myself -- who have disagreed with you, but you have chosen not to include our opinions.
      3) You are not a Bard: you do not represent the feelings of all Bards. We have our own individual voices.
      • Re: Bardic Hospitality & Magickal Winter Weekend

        Tue, November 20, 2007 - 5:51 AM
        I'm very confused here...

        On one hand, Gypsy, you seem to want to end the division between Wiccans and Pagans. On the other hand, you are adding fuel to the fire of separation.

        If you wish to heal the rift....this ain't the way to do it.
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          Re: Bardic Hospitality & Magickal Winter Weekend

          Wed, November 21, 2007 - 11:45 AM
          Gypsy is not causing a rift, he is simply pointing out that there are many events calling themselves
          Pagan
          but when you show up, it is 99% Wiccan...
          • Re: Bardic Hospitality & Magickal Winter Weekend

            Fri, November 23, 2007 - 8:17 AM
            ***sigh*** Not sure if that's a problem with advertising, demographics, or both....
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              Re: Bardic Hospitality & Magickal Winter Weekend

              Fri, November 23, 2007 - 9:26 AM
              I think it is really mainly a matter of there are so many people who know that they are Pagan but don't know that there are so many different paths that they could follow they just end up gravitating toward Wicca because it is the most prevalent and has the most information publicly available.

              I started that way and there are still many who consider me Wiccan even though the title doesn't really fit. That is the belief system that I know the most about and, I suppose, is the one I follow most closely just because I know it and parts of it do resonate strongly. With my musical leanings and what little I was able to gleen from John Michael Greer last year, I am probably much more Druid than anything but I would never claim that title as I have no knowledge or training in that area. So if forced into a title I suppose I am still Wiccan but have to wonder how many others are in the same boat as I??
          • Re: Bardic Hospitality & Magickal Winter Weekend

            Fri, November 23, 2007 - 9:41 AM
            I think if you came to Pagan Pride, you wouldn't find that. I make it a point to be as diverse as possible with our presenters and community groups present.
            • Re: Bardic Hospitality & Magickal Winter Weekend

              Fri, November 23, 2007 - 9:31 PM
              Wow, I just read this whole thread, it's really interesting.So, here's what I think for what it's worth.
              First, I don't really consider this "in public". I think this is a community site and it's not only fair, but potentially very helpful to any event organizer to hear what people have to say about these issues.

              As long as there is no name calling and people stick to the issues, why not talk about it?

              I do think that if you can't give performers at least a day pass, then some work needs to be done on balancing the budget. A less expensive veneu maybe. I know nothing about the MWW budget, just a thought.

              I havn't attended MWW, but have attended many other events in the area, I would like to say I have thought for a long time that what we lack as a community is a variety of music. I love.... love.... love drumming, but would also love to see more other types of music and entertainment at all events, so I think it's very much worth the hassle to make sure our musicians and bards stick around.

              and last... Knower may come across harsh or hot tempered at times, but he makes a lot of very good points and clearly has in mind the good of the community. I think we should be listening and taking notes.

              I have great appreciation for everyone who gives of themselves to make things happen in our community and I trust you understand there is no criticism intended here. Thanks to everyone for all you do
              • Re: Bardic Hospitality & Magickal Winter Weekend

                Sun, November 25, 2007 - 12:25 AM
                One drummer's perspective: I loved the music last year, it was very good, sometimes very funny, and all from the heart. There was obviously some scheduling miscommunications about what was happening when. Drumming and dancing were supposed to begin at 9ish, there was no info about other music happening that evening that I heard. The music was good, but it was a performance, not music to dance to, and by the time they were done most of the people who had come to dance had left.

                As a professional, dues-paying union musician, playing for free is never free. Musicians spend many long hours perfecting their craft, investing time that eventually they hope will make a return that possibly will be enough to live on. It's very hard to pay the rent and bills from poor CD sales. Union scale for an hour casual job begins about $40, so that's a fair trade for at least a day pass to most events, per musician. Are they from out of town? They have travel fees, per diem for food and lodging, plus possibly cartage fees for hauling all that stuff they need to put on that show. Hospitality? How about working wages for a more than honorable profession. It's not a hobby that's nice to have at events, it's a calling that is also a lot of work.

                I will continue to support MWW as long as it is trying to help our local community. People that volunteer shouldn't have to pay, especially the committ members who work on it over many months. That is their investment, the dividend is the event happening at all, and their being able to participate without additional expense.

                My $0.02