that would be me, lol. i homeschool my 3 boys, i homeschool for many reasons, i feel they are more impowered, less processed, they learn more, they retain more, they are nicer kids in general, they are safer....... lots of reasons. disclaimer: every family is different, this is how i feel about MY family, what works best for my family. as far as introducing paganism to them, i feel like i am very pagan oriented, Goddess oriented, and so i talk with my kids about Her, magic, how to use simple magic, how to use the secret, as a way of empowering my kids and helping them to grow and bringing us closer together. my oldest especially gets into it, he loves harry potter, and he is a wizard! as he is delighted that magic is real!
does that answer most of your questions, lol? so are you a homeschooling pagan oriented parent then?
and merry meet!

Sarah,
I have been pagan for 31 years and my daughter is fam trad. I homeschooled her all through high school after watching her grades take a noisedive in a huge conglomerated school, without sufficent good teachers, outdated books and overcrowding. I sought out a local independent study program offered by a local school district; and then injecting paganism into the general history and social studies sections.
I recommend you pick up a copy of "The Teenage Liberation Handbook" by Grace Llewellyn. I know your kids are younger, but it gives good information on homeschooling and unschooling.
Home schooling is as pagan as skyclad and don't let anyone tell you differently. Do what is best for your kids. And if you need socialization and a multi-cultural atmosphere, the independt study program my child was involved with had all sorts of kids; beyond that go to pagan festivals, multicultual events and even go to the local Unitarian Universalist Church or Fellowship. They are usually a very accepting group and have all sorts of children's programs and events.